Buried within the often whimsical seeming comments of a 5 year old, can be essential clues to understanding their interests and motivations.
Yesterday, I was teaching a 5 year old student out of Faber’s “My First Piano Adventure” level C. An interesting thing happened. I think the piece she was learning, was “Ludwig’s Accents” (which is really well arranged by the way, the Faber’s did a superb job of this).
Everything was going as usual, we sang and played the song together, talked about what the accents meant. Then she asked if I could demonstrate the duet part to her, which I did.
Then she said: “I would like to learn and play that duet for the recital”.
What?! Huh?! Do have wax in my ears?
I said, “you meant you want to play the duet together for the recital?” (Bear in mind the recital is just over a month away).
“No, I want to play what you just played”.
Yes, its what I thought. She was asking me to teach her how to play the teacher’s part!!
As a teacher, I’ve begun to recognize one thing: this request is a clue. Go with it!
We spent the next 10 minutes in this hard-to-explain “flow”, going back and forth, where we didn’t speak at all – I’d demonstrate part of the duet, she’d copy me. We actually got through the first four measures of it, and she was practically playing it. Her first time! I have a feeling that over a few weeks of doing this repetitively, she may begin to get it. But she’s getting it because she wants to. She had that burning desire inside, and it was her request.
Now I can also surmise that perhaps she likes something about that style of music, whether it be the harmony, or rhythm or mood. Another clue for when I’m hunting for new music for her to try.
My initial inclination, as a “rational adult”, was to say “well that part’s for the teacher!” Or “are you sure you want to try that? It’s a little tricky”.
But being open to the fleeting requests of a 5 year old can bring you to unexpected places. When a student really really wants to pursue something – even if in our logical adult minds it seems beyond them – desire and engagement go a LONG way.
Pay close attention to things your students say today!





March 30, 2011
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